Do you ever have one of those days when you have to really make yourself be thankful? Today wasn't even one of those days- just one of those evenings. We had a wonderful day playing with our friends at their house (and doing Cleaning Club! Shannon and I scaled Mount Laundry together!) We had a nice lunch, the weather was gorgeous, the kids played, we even had an impromptu beauty shop and I have less hair now- it was a great day! But throw a trip to the very busy grocery store on there, add a couple of kids who won't go to bed, mix in a parental spat and a messy house, and you get a pretty crappy evening in which it becomes difficult to remember all the reasons to be thankful. And it doesn't help that I am feeling grumpy and over-stimulated by electronics... stay tuned for a new and improved plan for reducing our screen time around here...
Anyway. It doesn't take too much to remind me why I am thankful, once I sit down and clear my head of all the unpleasantness of a not-so-great evening. As always, we have loving and accepting families who love us in spite of all our flaws. We have healthy, happy kids and lots and lots (and looooots) of time to spend with them. We have a great house and vehicles that are running and don't have to worry too much about making ends meet most months. We have love. And as we've just been celebrating our first year in our new town, I am constantly aware of how fortunate we are to be here. We have made a lot of decisions in our past and even made a lot of moves to new towns and new homes, and wondered later if it was the right choice. But we have never felt so at home as we do here. I am so thankful for that this year- for the awesome feeling of knowing you are exactly where you are meant to be. Surrounded by love and support and friendship, we are so glad we have put down our roots and chosen to make Athens our home.
Happy Thanksgiving! We love you all, Grandma
ReplyDelete((((((Jennifer))))) I hate when good days take that wrong turn to the dark scary place of Grumpyland. Like some episode of Twilight Zone- it's so hard to get out of there, once you're there. Doing just what you did there at the end--is what I soooo want to get in the habit of doing--the habit of being thankful. The mindfulness when I am starting to feel really overwhelmed-to say thank you in the midst of that, and even for that. What a great thing it is to have family around, to drive me nuts in the first place!! But I think it will take me awhile to habituate that...
ReplyDeleteI am thankful for you guys--you are great blessing to us--and that laundry we did got me over the hurdle and I have seen the bottom of my hamper for the first time in months!! Pat and I went out to celebrate our anniversary later that night--and he was actually able to chill and relax because there wasn't lots of work awaiting us when we got home. Thank you so much helping make that happen!!
(And I hope the spat wasn't about your hair {shifty eyes} :P )
Oh no- the hair is just fine! Glad you had a nice anniversary!!
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